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In Memory of
Vera C.
Martell (Maines)
1944 - 2018
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Beardsley Funeral Home & Crematory, Inc.
"We are honored to provide this Book of Memories to the family."
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Scott and Carla Kephart
"Our deepest sympathy and condolences to the family."
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Lisa & Jack sones
"will miss you and saphire knows your watching over her from heaven "
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Shasta
"Such a great woman gone but never forgotten!prayers!"
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Ashley Milligan
" You were a very genuine caring living and wonderful lady. You were always so ki"
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Bert
"You are truthly missed and we all love you so much thanks for being there as a g"
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Hope Meeker
"We will miss you with all our hearts at least your not suffering and your with u"
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Hope Meeker
"We will miss you with all our hearts at least your not suffering and your with u"
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saphire Rowles
"you are always in my Hart ill miss you always "
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Michelle M Martell
"My thoughts and prayers are with the family she will be sadly missed she was won"
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Brittany
"I miss you so much "
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Dan and Aly Graham
"So sorry for your loss. R.I.P to a great Lady."
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Wayland Family
"Vera was a wonderful lady! She will be greatly missed!"
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harvey rowles
"safe and speedy journey Misawac Kawi Na’wapamitin means “Until We Meet Again"
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Tina martell
"An angle gained her wings rip grammy martell you never be forgotten "
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brian and brenda martell
"love and miss you R.I.P Mom"
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Susan martell irwin
"You are in heaven now with you husband you all are miss very much "
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Lisa Singer
" To the greatest person around who I can honestly she is my mom. U will never fo"
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Kristin Oshall RN 2nd floor @Clfd Hosp
"You were such a strong lady. Many prayers of comfort to your family. You are at "
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Nancy Condon
"Rest In Peace Dear Vera. "
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Tips on Writing a Message of Condolence

You may not know exactly what you want to say in your Book of Memories™ condolence message. In fact, this may be the first time you've ever been faced with sharing your feelings or offering comforting words to someone who is grieving a loss. Whether it's the first time, or the fifth, we're here to offer some assistance. We've compiled some tips, and brought together a list of expressive words you can use in your condolences.

Tip #1: Be sincere. It's important to mean what you say, on the deepest emotional level. Yes, we know, "saying what you mean" can be harder - that's why we're here.

Tip #2: Keep it simple. You don't need to say much more than "I'm sorry for you loss," yet it's always wonderful to share a personal memory of their loved one, if you have one.

Tip #3: Don't tell them you know how they feel. Because you can't really know; even if you've endured the loss of a loved one in the past - your grief was yours, and this is theirs.

Tip #4: Share how you felt when you heard the news. Perhaps you were shocked, disbelieving, or deeply saddened. Let them know how the passing affected you personally.

Tip #5: Share Remind them that you will always hold the memory of their loved one close to you. It will be a comfort to them to know that their loved one will be remembered.

A Short List of Appropriate Phrases:

  • Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
  • Please accept my condolences on the loss of your partner.
  • With deepest sympathy for your loss.
  • Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • Please know our loving thoughts embrace you each and every day.
  • Thinking of you in these difficult times and sending you love.
  • With heartfelt condolences.
  • Wishing you comfort at this sorrowful time.
  • Sharing in your sorrow, thinking of you and wishing I could be there
  • to hold your hand.
  • May the love of those around you, help you through the days ahead.
  • Hold tight to memories for comfort.
  • Lean on your friends for strength, and always remember how much you are cared about.
  • As you comprehend this profound loss, let yourself cry knowing each tear is a note of love rising to the heavens.
  • Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • Peace, prayers and blessings.
  • Words cannot even begin to express our sorrow.
  • You are in our prayers.
  • May your memories give you strength.
  • Remember that we love and care about you.
  • May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.

After writing and posting a message of condolence to the family, you may also wish to make a memorial donation as a tribute to their loved one, or send flowers to the family home or memorial service. However you choose to express your concern and pay tribute, please know this: it will be deeply appreciated.

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